12 Marriage Safeguards

12 Marriage Safeguards

Marriage is a gift from God! It is designed to be the great joy and source of life! If that's true, then why does it seems like it can often be one of the greatest sources of frustration, pain, and often heartache? Why do so many marriages end in divorce? Is there a way we could better set up our marriages to thrive? Are there any ways we can SAFEGUARD our marriage?

We're glad you asked! The answer is yes! Your marriage can be full of life and passion! You can truly have a love relationship that is until "death do you part!" In this book, we share over 20 years of our marriage experience! We'll give you the 12 Safeguards to building a healthy, passionate marriage that lasts!

We want to encourage you not to settle for where your marriage currently is. Or if you're not yet married, don't settle in your mind for a mediocre marriage that you see around you today. Choose to engage God's Word, and apply God's word to your marriage. These principles will safeguard your marriage from the common pitfalls and hang-ups and set you up to win!

Building Trust and Transparency

One of the most important marriage safeguards is building trust and transparency. Trust doesn't just happen overnight; it's built through consistent actions and open communication. Couples should strive to be honest about their feelings, finances, and future plans. A lack of transparency can lead to misunderstandings and conflict. Therefore, regular discussions about personal expectations and concerns are essential in creating a solid foundation of trust in a marriage.

Effective Communication Strategies

Effective communication is another key safeguard in any marriage. It's crucial for couples to express their thoughts and feelings clearly and respectfully. They can use “I” statements to avoid sounding accusatory, which can trigger defensiveness. For instance, saying “I feel neglected when you work late” is more constructive than “You always ignore me.” By fostering an environment where both partners feel heard, you can prevent misunderstandings and strengthen your emotional connection.

Setting Boundaries and Respect

Setting healthy boundaries is vital for a strong marriage. Couples need to understand and respect each other's needs for personal space, social interaction, and time alone. Because every individual is different, open discussions about boundaries can lead to mutual respect. This means that if one partner needs time to unwind after a hectic day, the other should support that need. So, by respecting each other's boundaries, couples can cultivate a healthier and more fulfilling relationship.